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BDSM and Virgins Don’t Mix

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There has always been a male fantasy about finding that virgin girl who is desperate to have erotic sexual experiences for the first time. Perhaps it is the allure of an untouched body, or maybe it is the idea of a sexual partner who is new to the game, but there is something that most of these men are overlooking. Virgin sex is typically an awkward and uncomfortable event. Yes it can be exciting for two teenagers in the back of a car, but for any grown person who has experience with online dating or has the desire for more advanced erotic sexual experiences will not find much satisfaction in virgin sex. Sexual activities like BDSM or role play are not likely to be on the top of any virgin’s list. They are just happy to be doing the deed, so if you want something more than just straight up sex with an inexperienced and timid person, then you may want to skip out on the virgin sex. If you want to have an uncomfortable exchange of bodily fluids, then you should continue your search for that virgin girl as a sexual partner.

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Virgin Sex is Boring

Virgin sex is not an exciting event. It will likely be short and overly eager. I have a long and dirty sexual history. I have had many sexual partners, and I have tried just about everything that I could get my hands on. I love BDSM, bondage, role play, and all other types of erotic sexual experiences that are possible in the bedroom. The one thing that I do not like is virgin sex. I have tried this out a couple of times, and each time was a disappointment. Virgins don’t have the first clue about what it takes to be a good sexual partner. They are too worked up about everything, and they are either uptight or too eager. This makes for some really boring sex. They don’t have the capacity to be a good lover, and they don’t know what it means to help satisfy another person. I am not blaming people for being virgins, but I think that virgins should have sex with other virgins, so that they can get some experience under their belts before they enter the online dating world. That way, virgins can get their awkward right of passage phase out of the way, and start to learn what it means to be a sexual partner.

It is Only Ever Virgin Sex Once

No matter what, it is only ever virgin sex once. After you make the big move, your sexual partner is now just another inexperienced and unconfident person. They no longer have the draw of the virgin status, and this means that you are now stuck with a sexual partner who has no idea what they are doing. Of course, you can spend months training and grooming them to be better, but do you really want to wait that long for good sex? Virgins don’t know what they want and it can take them years before they hit any level of sexual maturity. This means you will be spending a lot of time waiting in the hopes that one day they realize that they have sexual preferences that are in align with your own. It is much more satisfying to connect with someone who already knows what they want, and shares common desires for erotic sexual experiences.

Use Online Dating to Find Someone with Experience

At this point, I hope I have convinced you to give up the illusion that virgin sex is somehow a desirable fantasy. I can only assume if you are reading this blog that you have some sexual experience and that you are out there looking for something specific in a sexual partner. Whether it is BDSM, role play, or some other obscure erotic sexual experience, you are much more likely to be satisfied and happy if you find someone who has experience and preference for the same sexual activities that you want. I have found that meeting sexual partners through online dating is much more effective for getting me what I want. Of course, online dating isn’t always the easiest thing, but there are some guides out there that can help you with this. I have found these Online Dating Tips to be very helpful in my searches for sexual partners. I am much more happy to meet with another person who has the same desires as I do, then to fulfill the empty fantasy of virgin sex.

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How Can I Get a Girl’s Number? Tales of Horror from Craigslist

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There comes a point in every guy’s online dating searches when they go back to the classic Craigslist classifieds, and scour through the postings to try and find a date. I have done this myself many times, and for whatever reason, I seem to keep trying it with very little success. In fact, worse than no success, I have had some really bad dates that turned out nothing like I expected. Fake girls and catfish are plentiful on Craigslist, and are the leading cause of my broken heart whenever I try delve into the long lists of sex-craved postings. Whenever I wonder “How can I get a girl’s number?”, I seem to be drawn to craigslist to try and find someone. Maybe it is the ease of the scrolling, or the way that people post such forward and sexually demanding things on the site, but I can’t seem to help myself time and time again. That being said, after my last experience on Craigslist, I don’t think I will ever be going back, no matter how horny I get when I am sitting at my computer.

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Bad Dates and Catfish

Normally when I am looking for a date online, I am able to sift through the hundreds of postings and profiles and shake out the fake girls. It is usually pretty obvious along the way, particularly when the post suspicious photos or give responses that don’t really make sense. Everyone knows that there are people online who aren’t always exactly as they present themselves. Most of the time this is just women who are using photos of their younger selves, or use a group photo so you are not exactly sure which girl you are talking to. However, occasionally you come across someone who is totally different from everything that they say and reveal about themselves. These are the type of people known as a catfish. Someone who baits you into believing that they are someone else, dragging you along until one day you finally come to the sudden revelation that they are not who they say they are. The motives for this seem to vary, but one thing is certain, it is usually a very nasty surprise that doesn’t go over well with anyone involved. I am not sure why people do this, but whatever their twisted reason is, it came as a real shock to me on my last Craigslist experience.

Fake Girls and a Broken Heart

It all started when I came across a posting on Craigslist that was seeking a guy for casual hook ups and a little bit of fun. Something about the post just spoke to me, and the picture of the ‘woman’ seemed almost too good to be true, but totally believable as well. I even google image searched the photos from the post, and they seemed to come out clean. I sent the poster a message and asked her about what she liked in a guy and told her a bit about myself. She responded quite quickly, and we immediately started chatting to each other about our sexual preferences and our lives in general. We went back and forth a few times, and our conversation eventually escalated to our phones. We exchanged numbers and we talked almost the whole night about everything from movies to music, to past sexual stories and future fantasies. It seemed like everything was clicking in the right places, and I was really excited when she started sending me more photos of herself.

This continued for weeks, and our chats became more and more sexually involved. I felt a really strong connection with this woman, and I eventually began to ask if we could meet. At first, she was resistant. Busy one day, and out of town the next. I started to feel like she was avoiding me, but she always had a convincing reason, and would make promises to make time to meet soon. I followed along with her talks, but I was starting to become annoyed and lose interest in the endless conversation. Eventually, I made an ultimatum of sorts, and she finally agreed to meet. I was happy and went out to make a reservation at a nice restaurant that I know in my neighborhood. The day had finally come, and I arrived early to the restaurant just out of excitement. I sat down, waiting for her to arrive, but time started to tick by and I soon realized that she was running late. It got to the point that I thought she wouldn’t arrive, and that’s when the 250 lb fat guy walked in and sat down on my table, reeking of booze…