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BDSM and Virgins Don’t Mix

There has always been a male fantasy about finding that virgin girl who is desperate to have erotic sexual experiences for the first time. Perhaps it is the allure of an untouched body, or maybe it is the idea of a sexual partner who is new to the game, but there is something that most of these men are overlooking. Virgin sex is typically an awkward and uncomfortable event. Yes it can be exciting for two teenagers in the back of a car, but for any grown person who has experience with online dating or has the desire for more advanced erotic sexual experiences will not find much satisfaction in virgin sex. Sexual activities like BDSM or role play are not likely to be on the top of any virgin’s list. They are just happy to be doing the deed, so if you want something more than just straight up sex with an inexperienced and timid person, then you may want to skip out on the virgin sex. If you want to have an uncomfortable exchange of bodily fluids, then you should continue your search for that virgin girl as a sexual partner.

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Virgin Sex is Boring

Virgin sex is not an exciting event. It will likely be short and overly eager. I have a long and dirty sexual history. I have had many sexual partners, and I have tried just about everything that I could get my hands on. I love BDSM, bondage, role play, and all other types of erotic sexual experiences that are possible in the bedroom. The one thing that I do not like is virgin sex. I have tried this out a couple of times, and each time was a disappointment. Virgins don’t have the first clue about what it takes to be a good sexual partner. They are too worked up about everything, and they are either uptight or too eager. This makes for some really boring sex. They don’t have the capacity to be a good lover, and they don’t know what it means to help satisfy another person. I am not blaming people for being virgins, but I think that virgins should have sex with other virgins, so that they can get some experience under their belts before they enter the online dating world. That way, virgins can get their awkward right of passage phase out of the way, and start to learn what it means to be a sexual partner.

It is Only Ever Virgin Sex Once

No matter what, it is only ever virgin sex once. After you make the big move, your sexual partner is now just another inexperienced and unconfident person. They no longer have the draw of the virgin status, and this means that you are now stuck with a sexual partner who has no idea what they are doing. Of course, you can spend months training and grooming them to be better, but do you really want to wait that long for good sex? Virgins don’t know what they want and it can take them years before they hit any level of sexual maturity. This means you will be spending a lot of time waiting in the hopes that one day they realize that they have sexual preferences that are in align with your own. It is much more satisfying to connect with someone who already knows what they want, and shares common desires for erotic sexual experiences.

Use Online Dating to Find Someone with Experience

At this point, I hope I have convinced you to give up the illusion that virgin sex is somehow a desirable fantasy. I can only assume if you are reading this blog that you have some sexual experience and that you are out there looking for something specific in a sexual partner. Whether it is BDSM, role play, or some other obscure erotic sexual experience, you are much more likely to be satisfied and happy if you find someone who has experience and preference for the same sexual activities that you want. I have found that meeting sexual partners through online dating is much more effective for getting me what I want. Of course, online dating isn’t always the easiest thing, but there are some guides out there that can help you with this. I have found these Online Dating Tips to be very helpful in my searches for sexual partners. I am much more happy to meet with another person who has the same desires as I do, then to fulfill the empty fantasy of virgin sex.